Feeling conflicted about antinatalism

 For a couple of years now I have been flirting with a philosophical outlook called antinatalism, it(the philosophical scbool of thought) essentially views birth negatively for a myriad(suffering of humans is probably the most important reason for me) of reasons and asserts that life is not worth starting.  

I have noticed that in some antinatalist circles  some people seem to hold views that are deeply anti-poor, some seem to outright endorse eugenics(unintentionally or not) and other deeply problematic worldviews .

Some people who think of themselves as antinatalists seem to believe that poor people shouldn't have children on the basis of them being poor and poverty gets treated as a personal moral failing even though in reality poverty is systematic and often caused by a range of circumstances that people don't have control over. In South Africa for instance, black people are disproportionately affected by poverty mainly due to apartheid, colonialism and poor governance by the ANC, since black people had been historically denied opportunities to adequately participate in the country's economy, suffered land dispossession and due to apartheid spatial planning were moved far away from where much of the economic activities take place i.e. cities, this has affected their prospects in life and overcoming these disadvantages requires a great deal of luck and hard work . Given all this, I am uncomfortable with the idea that children should be the preserve of those who are not poor. 

The idea that people who have disabilities or who are "undesirable" in any shape or form shouldn't exist and that only those who are essentially "genetically superior"  seems like eugenics to me. In fact people who flirt with such disgusting concepts aren't really antinatalists even if they can masquerade as antinatalists. 

My antinatalism is largely driven by the reality of suffering , regardless who one is. I think parents often don't appreciate the suffering that they're children may experience in life i.e. sickness, loss of a loved one, failure etc. My antinatalism is not driven by a belief that the poor shouldn't procreate or that only those "genetically superior" should be allowed to exist .